我的儿子林明自幼患双耳神经性耳聋,听力丧失百分之七十五左右。幸而我们夫妇从他很小的时候就试着采用各种办法教会他说话,使他能够从小学到高中毕业都受到正常教育。后来又读完图书馆专科函授大学,现在一个大学的图书馆工作,和正常人一样地为祖国四化贡献自己的力量。孩子生理上有缺陷,做父母的没有不心疼的,容易过分娇养。如果不是独生子女,更容易偏疼偏爱。我们夫妇经常就这方面的问题交换意见,有意识地互相提醒,不要对他过分娇养。我们尽力不让他感觉到是一个需要特殊照顾的孩子,因为那样不但会使他养成处处依赖父母的习惯,还会产生脆弱自卑的心理。尽管上小学以前他口头表达能力还不如妹妹,也要让他知道自己是大哥哥,应该处处照顾妹妹。有了糖果, My son, Lin Ming, had bilateral neurodevelopmental deafness at an early age, with hearing loss of about 75%. Fortunately, our couple tried to teach him a variety of ways from his very young age, so that he could be educated normally from elementary to high school. Later, after reading the college correspondence correspondence university, and now a university library work, and the normal person to contribute their strength for the motherland’s four modernizations. Children physically defective, parents do not feel bad, easily over-nurturing. If not only child, it is easier to favor preference. Our couple often exchange views on these issues and consciously remind each other that they should not be overly pampered. We try our best not to let him feel a child who needs special care because that will not only help him to develop the habit of relying on his parents everywhere, but also will create a sense of vulnerability and inferiority. Although he was not as good as a sister in oral communication before elementary school, he should also let him know that he is a big brother and should take care of his sister everywhere. With candy,