赞美别人,仿佛用一支火把照亮别人的生活,也照亮自己的心田,不仅有助于发扬被赞美者的美德和推动彼此友谊健康地发展,还可以消除人际间的龃龉和怨恨。赞美是一件好事,但绝不是一件易事。赞美别人时如不审时度势,不掌握一定的赞美技巧,即使你是真诚的,也会变好事为坏事。所以,开口前我们一定要掌握以下技巧。 Praising others, as if using a torch to illuminate others’ lives and illuminate their own hearts, not only helps to develop the virtues of those who are praised and to promote the healthy development of their friendship, but also to eliminate their interpersonal grudges and resentment. Praise is a good thing, but it is by no means easy. Praise others if not assess the situation, do not have some praise skills, even if you are sincere, it will be good for bad things. Therefore, before opening we must master the following skills.