在学校里,凡是教过他的老师都摇着头说他是自甘落后。我们知道他天性聪明,至少别的同学能学会的,他也能学会。但是他却拒绝努力,也不愿接受别人的帮助。对他鼓励也好,批评也好,他都无动于衷。一天课后,我找他谈话,告诉他:“你的这次考试又是一塌糊涂,看来,只能给你不及格了。你 In school, all the teachers who taught him shook his head and said he was self-possessed. We know he’s clever, at least other students can learn, he can learn. However, he refused to work hard and not willing to accept the help of others. He encouraged or criticized him, he was indifferent. One day after school, I talked to him and told him: "Your exam is a mess, it seems, can only give you a failure. You