34岁的合肥市民朱女士家有两个孩子,5岁的大宝和2岁的二宝从出生起便由公公婆婆带。5年来,朱女士和老公每个月都给公婆发1500元工资,从去年起涨到了2000元,孩子的生活费则另外支付。对于这种情况,邻居们说法不一,大多数认为,帮儿女照顾孩子天经地义,索要工资不近人情。(据《市场星报》)在我国传统的家庭观念中,老人帮忙带孩子的现象在各地都非常普遍。父母与子女的社会互动,以血缘为纽带,以情感为依托,总是会想方设法地避免直接言利 At the age of 34, Ms. Zhu, a citizen of Hefei, has two children. The 5-year-old Dabao and the 2-year-old Erbao have been brought into custody by their father-in-law since birth. In the past five years, Ms. Zhu and her husband have paid 1500 yuan a month for their in-laws and have risen to 2,000 yuan since last year. Their children’s living expenses are paid separately. In this case, the neighbors said different opinions, and most believed that helping children to take care of their children justified their demands for wages. (According to the “Market Star”) In the traditional concept of family in China, the phenomenon of helping the elderly with children is very common everywhere. Social interaction between parents and children to blood as a link, relying on emotion, always find ways to avoid direct speech and profit