朋友来我家玩,看宽宽自己一人睡一个房间,还自己收拾玩具,她感到很惊讶。她的女儿6岁,仍然没法跟父母分床睡。她问我怎样做到不让孩子跟父母一起睡,我笑笑说,如果她知道我的睡眠训练方法,肯定觉得我铁石心肠。父母比较容易犯的错误,就是容易在孩子的哭闹声中软下来,放弃自己的界限而满足孩子的要求。界限,是一个社会秩序与规则的保证,是道德文明得以保证和维持的前提,也是一个家庭能保持和睦幸福的条件之一。我主张,带孩子必须要有界限。我规定孩子吃东西都必须在餐桌或者高椅上吃,如果把东西拿到客厅去吃,必定会被我没收,而且无 She was surprised when a friend came to my house and looked wide at herself, sleeping in a room and cleaning up the toys by himself. Her daughter, 6, still can not sleep in bed with her parents. She asked how I did not let my child sleep with their parents, and I said with a smile that if she knew my sleep training method, I would definitely feel that I had a heart of stone. Parents are more likely to make mistakes, it is easy to soften the child’s crying, give up their boundaries and meet the requirements of children. Boundaries are a guarantee of social order and rules, a prerequisite for the guarantee and maintenance of moral civilization, and one of the conditions for a family to maintain harmony and happiness. I advocate that children must have boundaries. I require children to eat must eat at the table or high chair, if things get to eat in the living room, I will certainly be confiscated, and no