那天下午,我在心理咨询室里接待的最后一名来访者是位年轻的母亲,她说儿子的一些想法和行为完全不能让她理解。她儿子小强(化名),今年8岁上小学二年级,聪明、活泼、开朗,学习成绩也很好,但就是有个毛病———不承认错误,而且喜欢把责任推给别人。她跟我举了一个例子:有一次小强 That afternoon, the last visitor I received in the counseling room was a young mother, who said that some of her son’s thoughts and actions did not make her understand. Her son, Xiao Qiang (not her real name), is a sophomore in grade 8 this year. She is smart, lively, cheerful and has good academic performance. However, she has a problem --- she does not admit mistakes and likes to push her responsibility to others. She told me an example: a small strong