在存在主义哲学家萨特的一部叫《禁闭》的戏剧中,出现了“他人即地狱”这样的一个著名哲学论断。这一论断即是在陈述人与人之间无法逾越的鸿沟。鸿沟是确实存在的,鸿沟是不可抗和不可改变的,面对它我们只能选择认识它、理解它,却不能变革它。在意识并接受这一点之后,我们不因此多一个苦痛的理由,而是要学会在生活中平衡鸿沟,利用鸿沟,积极生活。 In a play by existentialist philosopher Sartre entitled “Confinement”, a famous philosophical assertion of “others are hell” emerged. This assertion is a statement of the insurmountable gap between people. The gulf is real. The gulf is irresistible and immutable. In the face of it, we can only choose to know it, understand it, but not change it. After we are conscious and accept this, we will not give more than a painful reason. Instead, we must learn to balance the gap in life and use the gap to live a positive life.