自我完善的过程很像学骑马,太快太慢都可能从马背上摔下来,而且即使什么都按照要领去做,也还是可能摔下来。所以要接受经常会掉下的事情,不必大惊小怪而要继续努力。摔跟头没什么了不起的,不过是人生旅途不可分割的一部分。但也不要说就应该躺在那里不肯起来,跌倒在泥淖里的时候,成长取决于 The process of self-improvement is much like learning to ride a horse, too fast or too slow can fall from horseback, and even if everything is done according to the essentials, it is still possible to fall. So to accept the things that often fall, do not make fuss and keep going. Falling heels no big deal, but it is an integral part of the journey of life. But do not say that you should lie there and refuse to get up, and fall in the mud, growth depends on