有一天,闲聊中,一个年轻的朋友不经意间对我说,你对人总是笑,虽然说不上是满脸堆笑,却总是笑着;但你的笑给我的感觉,是一种敷衍的甚至是妥协的笑。是吗?我问朋友,也问自己。不说,也没有这种自觉,一说,反省一下,觉得还真有这么回事。真有。见了人,不管喜欢不喜欢,不管讨厌不讨厌,往往 One day, chatting, a young friend inadvertently said to me that you always laugh at people, though they are not smiling, but always smile; but your smile gives me the feeling that it is a kind of perfunctory Even compromise laughter. Is it? I asked my friends and asked myself. Do not say, there is no such conscious, one said, reflect on what, really think so. Really. Met people, whether you like it or not, whether you hate it or not, often