我们在公共场所,经常可以看到跟家长斗气的孩子。家长要他这样做,他偏偏那样,不管家长说也好,骂也好,甚至动手打也好,都无济于事。但同样在这种场合,我们也能看到许多这样的孩子,他们对父母的要求尽管不全部赞同,但也能够尊重,而不是肆意与父母『对着干』。为什么有的家长把孩子管教得那么好,有的家长却总在与孩子斗气中打发时日呢?就这一问题,我们请青岛师范专科学校的白振汉老师撰写了一组短文,供在孩子面前束手无策的家长们参考。 We are in public places, we can often see the children with their parents vindictiveness. Parents want him to do so, he happens so, no matter what parents say, curse, or even the hands-on, are of no avail. But on this occasion, too, we can see many such children whose parents’ demands, though they are not fully endorsed, can be respected, rather than wantonly doing nothing with their parents. Why do some parents teach their children so well, and some parents always pass their grudge with their children? On this issue, we asked the teacher’s college in Qingdao Bai Zhenhan teacher wrote a series of essays for the children Helpless parents for reference.