8月17日晴美国社会心理学家费斯汀格,总结出一条著名法则,被人们称为“费斯汀格法则”:生活中的10%是由发生在你身上的事情组成,而另外的90%则是由你对所发生的事情如何反应所决定。换言之,生活中有10%的事情是我们无法掌控的,而另外的90%却是我们能掌控的。费斯汀格在书中举了一个例子。卡斯丁早上起床后洗漱时,随手将自己的高档手表放在洗漱台边,妻子怕被水淋湿了,就随手拿过去放在餐桌上。儿子起床后 On August 17th, U.S. social psychologist Feisinger, summed up a famous rule, which was called “Fistinger’s rule”: 10% of life is made up of things that happened to you. The other 90% is determined by how you react to what happened. In other words, 10% of things in life are beyond our control, while the other 90% are things we can control. Festinger gave an example in the book. When Justin wakes up in the morning to wash his hands, he places his high-end watch on the washstand, and his wife is afraid of getting wet. After the son gets up