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五一放假后上班的第一天,肖女士哭哭啼啼来到我的诊室。在她断断续续的诉说中,我弄清楚了她要说的内容:她一直怀疑丈夫有外遇,这次放假期间终于证实了丈夫以值班为由,其实是与女朋友约会。肖女士不断地问我,她“丈夫是怎么想的”。在我做心理咨询医生的十几年中,经常遇到这样的咨询者:丈夫出轨后,妻子在痛苦万分之余,来到心理诊所,唯一的目的是弄清“丈夫是怎么想的”。我心里很清“
On the first day after work day off, Miss Xiao cried to my clinic. In her intermittent complaint, I figured out what she wanted to say: She had always suspected her husband had an affair. During this holiday season, her husband finally confirmed that she was on duty on the basis of duty, in fact, she was dating a girlfriend. Ms. Xiao constantly asked me, ”How does her husband think?“ During my ten-year consultation with a psychiatrist, I often encounter such counselors: after her husband derailed, her wife came to the psychiatric clinic with the sole purpose of clarifying ”what does the husband think? “. My heart is very clear. ”