一、背景初一学生已经进入青春期,这时期的学生成人意识和独立意识开始增强,渴望家长和老师把他们当作大人看待,因而对父母和老师在生活和学习上事无巨细的关照和干预感到厌烦,对他们的看法和结论产生怀疑,甚至反驳、背道而驰。然而,由于生活经验、社会阅历不足,经济上不能独立,在生活和学习上还要寻求父母和老师的帮助或指导。这就造成孩子青春期心理的一对矛盾:独立性与依赖性,如果在这个时期能够及时发现学生异样行为,并进行心理疏导和 First, the background of the first students have entered adolescence, this period of adult awareness and independent awareness of students began to increase, eager parents and teachers treat them as adults, so their parents and teachers in living and learning to take care of and carelessness and intervention Feel annoyed, have doubts or even refute their opinions and conclusions, and run counter to them. However, due to lack of experience in life and social experience, they can not afford to be economically independent and seek the help or guidance of parents and teachers in their daily life and study. This creates a pair of children adolescent psychology contradiction: independence and dependence, if at this period can be found in a timely manner student behavior disorder, and psychological counseling and