作为家长,为了把孩子培养成才,付出再多的精力和财力都在所不惜。孩子成绩不好,就上补习班;为了培养综合素养,兴趣班一报就是好几个。我们只会担心自己做得还不够,从来不觉得这样做有何不妥。我把这种“劣习”带到美国,发现完全行不通。在不断地碰壁甚至是挫折中,我意识到,作为家长,我缺了几门非常重要的课。 As parents, in order to train children to succeed, pay more energy and financial resources are worth. Children’s grades are not good, on the cram school; in order to develop comprehensive literacy, interest class a newspaper is several. We will only be worried that we have not done enough. We never feel that we are doing anything wrong with this. I brought this “bad habits” to the United States and found that it did not work at all. In the constant wall or even frustration, I realized that as a parent, I missed a few very important lesson.