在幼儿和儿童时期,男孩女孩之间并没有特别的界限,也很少有特殊的感觉;但在青春期开始后,少男少女之间就有了特殊的身体与心理的感觉,有些中学生对此不太理解,所以,笔者在某中学初二年级的课堂上,与少男少女们讨论:男女同学初次握手的感觉。下面是笔者(B)与中学生(A)的对话。 A:老师,我想问一个问题。过去,我很少接触女生,因此不好意思与她们说话。但现在,我很愿意与她们说话和在一起活动。上个星期,我们班去春游,当我拉住女生的手,帮助她们爬山时,有一种特殊的感觉,象突然“触电”一样,我有点吃惊,但又不敢放开手,生 There are no special boundaries between boys and girls in early childhood and childhood, and there are very few special feelings. However, after adolescence, there is a special physical and psychological feeling between boys and girls, and some middle school students do not do this Too understanding, therefore, the author in the second grade of a middle school class, and boys and girls to discuss: boys and girls first handshake feeling. The following is the author (B) and high school students (A) dialogue. A: Teacher, I want to ask a question. In the past, I rarely touched girls, so sorry to talk to them. But now, I am very willing to speak with them and activities together. Last week, our class went for a spring break. When I took the girl’s hand and helped them climb the mountain, I had a special feeling that I was a bit surprised at the sudden “electric shock” but did not dare to let go.