一、戒做不速之客如果事先没有任何约定，突然来到别人家中，这样容易破坏人家家庭生活的正常秩序，并且主人会因家务事来不及整理，显得凌乱而尴尬。当然近亲密友可以例外。二、戒做失约之客应邀到人家做客，准时赴会，既是对主人的尊重和礼貌，也是自身教养良好的标志，最好 First, to quit uninvited guest If there is no agreement in advance, suddenly came to someone else’s home, so easy to undermine the normal order of family life, and the owner will be too late for housework order, appear messy and embarrassed. Of course, close friends and relatives can be the exception. Second, abstain from being invited to be invited to others guest, attend the meeting on time, both respect and courtesy of the owner, but also their own well-educated logo, the best