整理者按:2015年10月,父亲因脑出血住院,所幸并无大碍。这让我的生活慢了下来。在博爱县人民医院照顾父亲之余,不值夜时,我在家翻看他的记事台历、进修笔记和家书,读来颇有意味,在文字里重新发现了父亲。我与父亲通信,始于1992年。起因是,我在博爱一中上学时,有次约请同学到家里玩,当他从外面回来,得知其中有女同学,“脸上一寒”(姐姐转述语)——为了解释,回到学校,我给他写了一 Sort by: 2015 October, my father was hospitalized for cerebral hemorrhage, but fortunately no serious problem. This slows my life down. In Bei County People’s Hospital to take care of my father, not worth the night, I looked at his home calendar memo notes, study notes and family books, quite meaningful to read in the text to find the father again. I communicate with my father, starting in 1992. The reason is that when I went to school fraternity, there are times about the classmates invited to play at home, when he came back from outside, learned that there are female students, “face a cold ” (sister remarks) - to explain, Back to school, I wrote him one