中国家长习惯于在制止小孩做某件事情时连骗带吓,比如“不听话,鬼就来抓你”、“不听话,爸爸妈妈不要你了”。而美国人教育子女有一个原则:绝对不吓唬小孩,不用谎话来骗小孩。他们认为小孩的承受能力很低,大人不经意的一句话往往会使他们睡不好觉、吃不好饭。有一个故事,一位中 Chinese parents are accustomed to making scams even when they stop a child from doing something, such as “disobedient, ghosts will catch you” and “disobedient parents and mom do not want you.” And Americans have a principle of educating their children: never frighten children, do not lie to cheat children. They think children have a very low capacity, and adults’ casual thoughts often make them sleep well and eat poorly. There is a story, one in the middle