做父母,不容易,哪怕不经意的评价,也可能会对孩子造成终生的影响。我不漂亮,跳级之后学习成绩也下滑了从小,我就知道自己长得不漂亮。在我很小的时候,有几次,我听爸爸跟妈妈嘀咕:“人家都说女孩随爸,咱家菁菁为啥就没随我呢?”每一次他们这么说的时候,我就跑去照镜子。镜子里的那个女孩,鼻梁矮矮的,眼睛小小的,越看越像是妈妈的翻版。 Parents, not easy, even casual evaluation, may also have a life-long impact on children. I’m not pretty, my grades have dropped since my childhood, and I knew I was not beautiful. When I was very young, several times, I heard my father whispered with his mother: “Everybody says girls go with dad, why is not my family Jingjing?” "Every time they say so, Run to look in the mirror. The girl in the mirror, short bridge of the nose, small eyes, more like a mom replica.