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亲子间出现的所有问题都与“关系”二字分不开。有的时候父母与孩子间的关系太疏远了,于是孩子感受不到关爱;有的时候父母与孩子的关系太紧密了,孩子会觉得失去了自我,会想要逃离。有的时候母亲与孩子太近了,父亲会失去在孩子成长中应有的位置,夫妻关系也会变得不太顺畅,等等。很多情况下,关系理顺了,父母与孩子之间、夫妻之间会变得和谐,孩子及家庭成长中的问题也就有了解决的前提。
All problems that arise between parents and children are inseparable from the word “relationship”. Sometimes the relationship between parents and children is too distant, so children can not feel the love; sometimes the relationship between parents and children are too close, children will feel lost self, will want to flee. Sometimes the mother is too close to the child, the father will lose the place where the child should grow up, the relationship between the husband and wife will also become less smooth, and so on. In many cases, the relationship is straightened out, parents and children, husband and wife will become harmonious, children and family growth problems will have to solve the premise.