神经症治疗专家许又新教授提出了一个公式:焦虑=欲望/满足度。又到一年学生考试季,家长或学生可以看看自己过度焦虑中的欲望及满足度,想想如何调控它,或可处理一些家庭的阶段性危机。考试临近,乔老师下班一到家就给孩子辅导功课,妻子赵老师一边在厨房做饭,一边听着客厅里的动静,她怕丈夫又忍不住跟孩子吼起来。儿子鹏宇上小学三年级,大多数时候安静稳重,说话慢条斯理,比较喜欢 Professor Xu Youxin, a neurosis therapist, put forward a formula: Anxiety = Desire / Satisfaction. To the one-year student exam season, parents or students can take a look at their own desire and satisfaction in over-anxiety, think about how to control it, or handle some family-stage crises. Examination is approaching, Joe home after work to give children homework counseling, wife Zhao while cooking in the kitchen, while listening to the living room of the movement, she was afraid her husband could not help but roar with the child. Peng Yu, son of third grade primary school, most of the time quiet and steady, speaking slowly, prefer