“朋友是磁石吸来的铁片儿、钉子、螺丝帽和小别针,只要愿意,从俗世上的任何尘土里都能吸来。有的用力甩甩就掉了,有的怎么也甩不掉,可没有了磁性它们就全没有了。”“相见亦无事,不来忽忆他,这就是朋友的境界。”在相当长的时间里,吴开楠把朋友看得非常重要,为此冷落了亲戚,甚至家人。可他渐渐发现,一个人活着其实仅仅是一个人的事,生活关照型的朋友可能 Friends are magnets, iron nails, screw caps and pins that can be sucked in from any dust in the earth, as long as they are willing. Lost, there can be no magnetic they are all gone. “” See also nothing, not to recollect him, this is the realm of friends. "For a long time, Wu Kaibin to see friends is very important , To neglect relatives, even family members. But he gradually found that a person living in fact is only a matter of life-related type of friend may