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中国的传统文化里有一个很好的原则,那就是“己所不欲,勿施于人”。发展到了今天,在这个基础上,还要进一步形成一个新的观念,那就是“己所欲,如何予人”。我们以前往往认为,我认为好的,你也必须认为好,所以我要把它推广给你,要你学我,这是我的一种好意。其实这种心态是不正确的,为什么呢?因为你认为好的,人家不一定以为好。如果人家以为好,也要考虑人家该怎么样向你学习。所以,不要急于把你自己认为好的文化去推广,更不能够强制推广。
There is a very good principle in Chinese traditional culture, that is, “what you do not want to do, do not impose on others.” Development to today, on this basis, but also to further the formation of a new concept, that is, “what we want, how to people.” We used to think that I think good, you must also think that good, so I want to promote it to you, want you to learn me, this is my kindness. In fact, this attitude is not correct, why? Because you think it good, people do not necessarily think so. If others think it good, but also consider how others learn from you. So, do not rush to put your own culture to promote, but can not force promotion.