编辑同志: 这是我新婚不久的事情。一天晚上11时左右,丈夫13岁的女儿突然从睡梦中惊醒,想让我陪她睡。当她推开门却看见我们……我们很狼狈。只见她的眼睛一下子射出憎恨的目光,气急败坏地把门狠狠地摔上。十几天来,她不跟我们说话,故意回避我们,似乎不再相信我们。最近,我又从班主任那里得知她已流露出要离开家的念头。我们想劝她,可又难以开口,真不知道该怎么办? 北京一位孩子的母亲这位母亲: 孩子之所以愤恨和不能原谅你们,是因为她并不知道夫妻双方为什么需要性生活。她觉得你们的做法伤害了她的信任和自尊心。在她眼里,父母间的恩恩爱爱、亲亲热热不应表现为这种“卑鄙、下流”的事情,而是欢声笑语、幽默、互相学习、互为尊重,这是这个年龄段男女学生所具有的一种心理,在他们眼里,父母都是“高尚”的、正直的。另外,孩子表现 Edit comrades: This is my wedding soon thing. One night at about 11 pm, her husband 13-year-old daughter suddenly woke up from his sleep, want me to accompany her to sleep. When she opened the door but saw us ... ... we are embarrassed. I saw her eyes suddenly fired hatred gaze angrily knocked the door fiercely. For a dozen days, she did not speak to us, deliberately avoided us and seemed to believe us no longer. Recently, I learned from the class teacher that she had shown her intention to leave home. We want to persuade her, but hard to speak, I really do not know what to do Beijing mother of a child The mother: the reason why children resentment and can not forgive you because she does not know why the husband and wife need sex. She thinks your practice hurts her trust and self-esteem. In her eyes, love and affection between parents and relatives should not be seen as such “despicable, obscene” things, but laughter, humor, mutual learning and respect each other, and this is the age group Male and female students have a psychology, in their eyes, parents are “noble ”, upright. In addition, children show