大龄姑娘的苦恼大龄知识型城市女青年择偶难已成为一个社会问题。有人专门对城市青年的婚姻问题做过调查,发现半数以上的知识型(中专以上)大龄姑娘找不到心上人是由于她们订的择偶标准偏高。她们一般都要求男方文化程度要高些(至少与自己相同),职业要好些,家庭条件要优越些,年龄相貌要相当,还要有点“男子汉气概”。这样一来,真正达到标准,而又能相中她们的男子就 Elderly girl’s distress Older knowledge-based urban young women’s spouse choice has become a social problem. Someone has conducted a survey on urban youth marriage problems and found that more than half of the older girls who are knowledgeable (secondary school or above) can not find sweethearts due to their high mate selection standards. They generally require men to have a higher education (at least as themselves), better occupations, better family conditions, a fair age, and a bit of masculinity. In this way, truly meet the standards, but can phase their men