戴尔·卡耐基说:忘记感谢是人的天性,我们不能指望别人感恩而去行善。8年前,我在一个小镇上当一名公务员。听说在一个村里躺着一个无人照料的外地重病男人,从他身边走过的人成百上千,议论,猜想,感叹,同情,可就是无人将他送上医院。我驱车赶到的时候,已是第二天,那男人躺在草堆 Dell Carnegie said: Forgetting to be grateful is human nature. We can not expect others to be thankful for good. Eight years ago, I was a civil servant in a small town. I heard hundreds of thousands of people who walked beside him lying in an unmanned seriously ill man in the village, talking, guessing, sighing, and sympathizing, but no one had taken him to the hospital. The day after I arrived, it was the second day that the man lay on the haystack