目前,国际上有一种性的行为治疗,就是重新培训夫妻相互的性行为方式,来解决一系列性生活不和谐的问题。根据我国现有的情况,还难于开展这项工作,更不可能要求配偶成为专家来治疗对方。因此尽管这方面知识已经在报刊上登了不少,但人们最关心的是:能不能进行自我培训又该如何去做当然能。但一定要真正弄明白,这可不像学跳舞或太极拳 At present, there is a kind of sex behavioral treatment in the world, which is to re-train the couple’s sexual behavior to solve a series of problems of sexual disharmony. According to the current situation in our country, it is still difficult to carry out this work, let alone to ask spouses to become experts to treat each other. So although knowledge in this area has been published in the press a lot, but people are most concerned about: can not be self-training and how to do it. But be sure to really understand that this may not be like dancing or tai chi