马未都先生曾说过这样一段话:“人的一生中不可能不哭。我最爱的父亲去世,全家都哭了,我没哭;父亲遗体告别仪式,许多来宾都哭了,我没哭;我也是血肉身躯,但‘三从四德’告诉我,我是长子,当父亲不在时,我是一家之长,我怎么有哭的权利?”(见2012年10月10日《中国剪报》第5版《笑对人生》一文)其中的 Mr. Ma Wandu once said something like: “It is impossible not to cry in one’s life. My beloved father died, the whole family wept, I did not cry. My father said goodbye to the ceremony. Many guests were crying. I did not cry. ; I am also a flesh and blood body, but ’three from four virtues’ tell me that I am the eldest son, when my father is away, I am the head of a family, how do I have the right to cry? ”(See the October 10, 2012, 5 version of “laugh on life” article) among them