性生活是一个人全面心理素质的集中体现。许多个性方面的缺陷都会影响性生活的协调与美满。也就是说,有一些人由于自己的个性存在着某些缺陷,不仅跟目前的配偶过不好性生活,而且也不可能和其他人享受欢愉。对这样的人来说,最要紧的并不是抱怨对方或盲目学习性技巧,而是先要努力完善自己的个性。 Sexual life is a concentrated expression of overall psychological quality. Many personality defects will affect the coordination and happiness of sexual life. In other words, some people, because of their own personality, have some flaws, not only not having sex with their current spouses, but also enjoying being indulgent with others. For such people, the most important thing is not to complain about each other or blindly learn sexual skills, but first to strive to improve their own personality.