养育之恩大于天,人人皆有老来时。为人子女,强调工作忙,顾不了老人,这是说不过去的。友人老赵家,一个儿子虽然与他住在同城,但常不见面。老人打电话过去,也是爱理不理,更谈不上主动关爱。老赵气得想把报上那“新24孝”文章剪下寄给儿子,要他对照践行。站在一旁的赵奶奶插嘴道:“他单位报纸还多呢,儿子孝不孝,父母光‘要’了有什么用?要他自己‘要’才好呢!”赵奶奶的话,精辟深邃,既表达了一个年迈母亲对不孝儿的宽恕和无奈,更体现了老人善抓要害唤儿追问良心的明智。确实,要子女孝顺,特别是子女成年之后,光靠父母“逼”着,“要”他孝顺老人,显然是不行的。关键要年轻人能知道 Nourishing grace is greater than the sky, when everyone is old. As a child, emphasizing the work of busy, can not take care of the elderly, this is justified. Old friend Zhao, a son although living with him in the same city, but often do not meet. The elderly call the past, but also indifferent, let alone take the initiative to love. Zhao angry want to newspaper that “new 24 filial ” cut the article sent to his son, asking him to practice. Zhao grandmother stood aside and said: “his unit more newspapers, filial piety and filial piety, parents light ’to’ what is the use? To his own ’want’ is good! ” Grandma Zhao’s words, brilliant insight , Not only expresses the forgiveness and helplessness of an elderly mother to the unfilial children, but also embodies the wisdom of the elderly to grasp the key to calling children’s conscience. Indeed, to filial filial children, especially their children after their adulthood, rely on their parents “force ”, “To ” he filial piety of the elderly, obviously not work. The key to young people to know