强者通过寂寞修炼,弱者浪费寂寞消遣。朋友前些时间在准备一个英文辩论比赛,需要查阅大量资料,背诵大量专有名词。于是,爱玩儿的他,竟然失联三个多月。后来,我才知道,他在安静的地方租了个房子,每天除了查资料,就是对着墙一遍遍用英文跟自己对话,搞得都快人格分裂了。幸运的是,那年辩论赛,他拿了最佳辩手奖。他说,只有偏执狂,才能创造卓越。而我说,因为那些寂寞时光,才创造出卓越的他。我当老师的那几年,遇到过很多人蓬头垢面地准备考试,这 Strong through lonely practice, the weak waste lonely pastime. Some time ago friends in the preparation of an English debate competition, you need to access a large amount of information, recite a large number of proper nouns. So, he loves to play, even losing more than three months. Later, I learned that he had rented a house in a quiet place. Apart from checking information every day, he spoke to himself over the wall over and over again in English. Fortunately, he won the Best Debater Award in that year’s debate. He said that only paranoia can create excellence. And I said that because of those lonely times, he created excellence. In those few years when I was a teacher, I met many people unruly preparing for the exam