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多数女性发生外遇,通常是基于爱情的。她们到外遇中寻找的是爱,而不是性。但多数男人发生外遇,是为了性的。这便引发了外遇中男女的许多冲突。在生活中,一个男人与一个女人间的爱情,总是基于性别吸引,是性爱关系。许多人一提性爱便紧张,将性爱与做爱画等号。实际上,性爱=性+爱。换言之,没有爱情,或没有性,都是不可能的。我们的文化使我们在表述对一个异性的感情时往往以爱情代替性爱,这是不科学的。
Most women have an affair, usually based on love. What they look for in an affair is love, not sex. But most men have an affair, is for the sake of sex. This raises many conflicts between men and women in the affair. In life, a man and a woman’s love, always based on gender attraction, is sexual relations. Many people talk about sex will be nervous, sex and love painting equal sign. In fact, sex = sex + love. In other words, it is impossible without love or without sex. It is unscientific that our culture often makes us replace love with love when we express our feelings about an opposite sex.