我跟他认识那一年才19岁,刚参加工作不久。爸爸本不同意我那么小就开始谈朋友,拗不过介绍人执意要我跟他见一面。他是一名水兵,正在学校里学习潜水艇专业,人也长得英俊潇洒。跟着他到家里一看,我一下子就震惊了。他家在农村,离我家20来里路,破旧的三间平房因为年久失修,房檐都要塌了,房顶漏雨,屋里和外面墙角都透亮了。土炕上躺着瘫痪多年的母亲,连儿子回家看她都不认识。还有一个比他大6岁的聋哑哥哥, I know him that year before 19 years old, just to work shortly after. Dad did not agree with me so early to talk about friends, beating the introducer insisted that I see him. He is a sailor, is studying submarine professional school, people also look handsome. As he came home to see, I suddenly shocked. His home was in the countryside, 20 miles from my home, the old three bungalows were disrepair, the eaves were collapsed, the rooftops were leaking, the walls and the outside corners were translucent. Tukang lying on the paralyzed mother for many years, even the son came home to see her do not know. There is also a deaf and dumb older brother 6 years older than him,