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对只盯分数的家长重在正确引导现在的学生大多是独生子女,家长望子成龙心切,因此一般都能与老师建立良好的关系,积极、主动地配合老师的工作。但仍有一部分家长过分希望子女将来能出人头地,只重成才,不重成人,认为孩子在学校就该读书,忽视对孩子的思想教育及其个性发展,两眼只盯着孩子的考试分数,不注重孩子素质的全面提高。针对此类家长,辅导员要注重多与其沟通,交流观点和看法,消除他们的疑虑,让他们多给孩子一些肯定,多和子女沟通,与孩子交朋友。
Parents who focus on scores only focus on the correct guidance. Most students are currently only children. Parents are eager for success. Therefore, they generally can establish good relationships with teachers and actively and actively cooperate with teachers. However, some parents still over-indulgence that their children will be able to take the lead in the future, re-emphasizing their talents, and ignoring adults. They think that children should study at school and ignore the ideological education and personality development of their children. They only look at the children’s test scores, and they do not Pay attention to the overall improvement of the child’s quality. For such parents, counselors should pay more attention to communicating with them, exchanging opinions and opinions, eliminating their doubts, allowing them to give the children more affirmation, communicating more with their children, and making friends with their children.