我们总以为,有些人、事、物的存在是永远的,比如父母,比如买回的书,比如拍下来的相片。我们也常常被所谓的当务之急围追堵截,认为有些事可以缓一缓,比如一场说走就走的旅行,比如回家看看。于是那些计划与打算,日复一日、年复一年地被堆积在人生的角落里。最终积起了厚厚的尘土,最终成为人生的遗憾。刘同曾在自己的书里这样描述自己 We always think that some people, things, things exist forever, such as parents, such as bought books, such as photos taken. We are often chased down by so-called top-ups, thinking that some things can be slowed down, for example, a trip that goes away, such as going home. So those plans and plans, day after day, year after year are stacked in the corner of life. Eventually accumulated a thick dust, eventually become a pity of life. Liu Tong described himself in his own book