“孔融让梨”的故事从小便扎根于所有人的心中,人们赞美孔融谦让的美德。然而,当三年级小学生说出“孔融让梨我不让”的言辞时,老师给了个大大的叉。或许这位小学生回答得太过绝对,可是,在当今时代,我们确实需要合适的理由来谦让、礼让,甚至忍让、退让。正确的礼让固然是好的,它可以使个体有一个健全的人格。在日常生活中,公车上让座给老人是尊老的 “Kong Rong let pear ” story from the urine rooted in the hearts of all, people praise the virtues of Kong Rongqian let. However, the teacher gave a big fork when his grade three primary school students said “Kong Rong let me not let pear”. Perhaps the pupil answered too much in absolute terms. However, in today’s time, we really need appropriate reasons to be humility, courteousness, and even tolerance. Correct comity is good, it can make the individual have a sound personality. In everyday life, the bus seat to the elderly is respectable