我说的婚变不是婚姻裂缝了、亮红灯了,也不是婚姻名存实亡了……我说的是人们因时代变了,谢礼、彩礼、陪嫁等都相应变了。时代变了,没有媒人说媒;时代变了,女方要的彩礼变得高档、齐全、新颖而时尚了。若男方无房、无车、无存款,就很难娶到媳妇儿。现实的原因让不少年轻人非法同居、试婚、逃婚等,很多时候,受害的都是女方。很多年轻人都刚刚踏入社会,哪有那么多财富,不少人甚至连自己都无容身之处。工作压力、房子、车子压得现在的年轻人喘不过气来, I said marriage is not a marriage crack, a red light, nor is a marriage in name only ... ... I said that people changed because of the times, thanks, bridewealth, dowry, etc. have changed accordingly. Times have changed, there is no matchmaker media; times have changed, the bride’s wedding ceremony to become high-grade, complete, innovative and stylish. If the man no room, no car, no deposits, it is difficult to marry a wife-child. The reality of why many young people living together illegitimate, trial marriage, escaped marriage, often, the victims are the woman. Many young people have just entered the society, how can there be so much wealth, many people do not even have their own shelter. Work pressure, the house, the car pressed the young now breathless,