信任孩子,才能得到孩子的信任我一直觉得中学生异性相吸不值得大惊小怪。让我担心的是,孩子因害怕来自父母和老师的指责,将我们当成第一提防对象,在似懂非懂的情况下断章取义地理解爱情,或者在碰到问题后,首先想到的 Trust children to get the trust of children I have always felt that secondary school students attract the opposite sex is not surprising. What worries me is that children, fearful of allegations from their parents and teachers, regard us as the first guarded object, understand the situation out of context in a seemingly ignorance, or think about it first