与“再穷不能穷孩子”、“一切为了孩子”相反,在荷兰,对待孩子,社会公认的价值理念是“再富不能富孩子”。荷兰人对孩子其实非常苛刻和吝啬。很多孩子从小到大穿的都是亲戚朋友家的旧衣服,大人给消消毒、熨一下,整洁就好。小孩上小学后,开始要求有自己的零花钱,一般来说,每个月只能得到相当于自己年龄的零花钱,如九岁孩子每月只能得到九欧元,十五岁的初中孩子十五欧元。十几欧元在欧洲也就能买一个精致的笔记本,或是一个比萨饼。如果孩子 Conversely, in the Netherlands, to treat children, the socially accepted concept of value is “re-rich and poor children ”. Dutch people are actually very demanding and stingy about their children. Many children grew up wearing old clothes, relatives and friends at home, adults to eliminate disinfection, ironing, neat like. After elementary school, children begin to ask for their own pocket money. Generally speaking, they can only get pocket money equivalent to their own age each month. For example, a nine-year-old can only get nine euros a month, and a ten-year-old junior middle school ten Five euros. A dozen euros in Europe will be able to buy a fine notebook, or a pizza. If children