时下一些报刊宣传廉政典型，常常煞有介事地说某人拒礼拒贿多少次多少钱，言下之意这样的事情越多越廉政。那么，为什么拒了那么多次还有人送呢？问题就出在拒礼者对送礼者仍有“心软”的一面，即对送礼者的大名从不点破，对礼金礼品的来源也从不过问，只是“一拒了之”。而对送礼 Nowadays, some newspapers and periodicals propagandize the typical example of honest and clean government. They often say in a futile and silly way how many times they refuse and bribe their money. So, why did you refuse so many times to send it? The problem lies in the rejection of the giver is still “soft” side, that is, the giver’s name has never been broken, the source of gift gifts have never asked, but “a refusal of ”. And for gifts