21世纪是一个飞速发展、竞争激烈、优胜劣汰的社会,其中,最为关键的挑战是“适应”。适者生存,不适者灭亡,这是何等残酷无情的现实!一个人如果缺乏健康的人格,面对新的生活环境和压力,不会调整自己改变自己,将会被时代所淘汰。现在的学生心里有问题越来越趋于低龄化,出走、自杀、甚至杀父母现象一件件一桩桩警示着我们这些教育工作者,让学生取得好成 The 21st century is a rapidly developing, highly competitive, survival of the fittest society, one of the most crucial challenge is “adapt ”. The survival of the fittest, the demise of discomfort, which cruel ruthless reality! If a person lacks a healthy personality, in the face of new living environment and pressure, will not adjust themselves to change themselves, will be eliminated by the times. At present, there are problems in the minds of students increasingly getting younger, leaving home, committing suicide and even killing their parents. One by one, they warn us that these educators should make good achievements