1,“我想谈谈我们之间的事”。对男人而言,“我们”是最令人害怕的字眼,当你提到“我们”时,就暗示你和他的一体性,男人觉得讨论感情是天下最麻烦的。2,“如果你真的爱我……”男性感觉当女人说这句话时,一定是自己又做错事了,这让他感到充满罪恶感。像这类话只是一种发挥不了作用的威胁法,一开始他会容忍你,但罪恶感变成愤怒时,他会把你的话堵回去,应该以建议的方式让气氛更加温和。这样会让男人了解你的想法并觉得有接受的心情 1, “I want to talk about something between us.” For men, “we ” is the most frightening words, when you mention “us ”, it implies you and his integration, men think that discussing feelings is the world’s most troublesome. 2, “If you really love me ... ” Men feel that when a woman said this sentence, he must have done something wrong, which made him feel guilty. Such words as such are just a kind of ineffectual threat law that he will tolerate from the beginning, but when the sense of guilt becomes angry, he will put your words back and should make the atmosphere more moderate in the way suggested. This will make men understand your thoughts and feel accepted