在过去,个人的成功并不是通过“某种任性的行为或沉醉于某种任性的行为来完成,也不是通过培养某种个人特殊的个性和癖好来完成,而是通过发展一种完善的人格来完成,这种社会化的人格以自己与他人的共同价值来衡量自我的价值。”从前人们的生活态度是享受当下,如今人们的生活态度变成了向人们展示我正在享受当下。很多时候人们的想法是:“天哪,我必须赶快拍张照片,贴到社交网络上以获得回应。” In the past, personal success was not achieved through “a willful act or indulgence in some sort of willful behavior, nor was it accomplished by cultivating a particular individual’s personality and hobby, but by developing a sound Personality to complete, this social personality with their own common values ​​to measure the value of self. ”In the past people’s attitude to life is to enjoy the moment, and now people’s attitude has become to show people that I am enjoying the moment. Many times people think: “Gosh, I have to take a quick photo and paste it on the social network to get the response.” "