有个心理实验表明,假如给你看一堆照片,照片上一堆人中有你自己,那么毫无疑问,你最先看见的会是自己,这叫自我意识,或者说自恋。人最在乎的,是自己。如果你恰好看见一个熟人在照镜子,你会发现,他(尤其是她)的镜中模样和平时大相径庭,既柔和又做作,镜子里是他自己较为满意的表情、角度。所以有些零售店老板在店堂四周安上镜子,很聪明的一招,店员的嘴脸、举止,自己都看得见,就不会太 A psychological experiment shows that if you look at a bunch of photos and have yourself in the pile of people on the photo, there is no doubt that what you first see will be yourself, called self-awareness or narcissism. Most people care about themselves. If you happen to see an acquaintance looking in the mirror, you will find that the appearance of him (and especially her) in the mirror is quite different from that of peace. It is both soft and artificial, and the mirror is his own satisfying expression and angle. So some retail shop owners in the shop around the mirror, a very clever move, the clerk’s face, manners, can see their own, it will not be too