在德国弗赖堡大学做学术访问期间,我在湖边遇到一家四口,一对夫妇带着两个男孩。我和那家的男主人聊了起来。他告诉我,两个孩子都在上幼儿园,周末带他们出来玩。我问:“你们不利用周末时间带孩子参加学习班?”他不解:“什么学习班?”我说:“比如跳舞、体操、绘画、钢琴、外语、奥 During my academic visit to the University of Freiburg in Germany, I met a family of four at the lake, a couple with two boys. I talked to the man’s host. He told me that both children are attending kindergarten and weekends bring them out to play. I ask: ”Do not you take your children to a class on weekends?“ ”He puzzled:“ What class? ”I said:" For example, dancing, gymnastics, painting, piano, foreign languages,