田老师您好:孩子马上就要初中毕业了,我们希望他继续考高中,他却非常希望去职业学校学习平面设计,现在我们谁也说服不了谁。请给我们出个主意,到底该如何做呀?忧心如焚的父母父母的心情是可以理解的,不要轻易否决孩子的决定。父母应该先和孩子坐下来做一次深谈,谈话方式不应该是家长训诫孩子的方式,因为孩子已经不小了,应该像成年人与成年人对话 Hello Tian teacher: children will soon graduate from junior high school, and we hope that he will continue to high school, he very much hope to go to vocational schools to learn graphic design, and now we can not convince anyone. Please give us an idea, in the end how to do it? Worried parents Parents mood is understandable, do not easily veto the child’s decision. Parents should sit down with their children to do a deep talk, the way the conversation should not be a way parents to admonish their children, because the child is no small, should be like adults and adults talk