在现实生活中,人人都怕批评。似乎批评就是揭短和揭丑,是对能力的不认可或诋毁,是对尊严的伤害,是颜面扫地的事,是跟你过不去。其实,能够遇到批评你的人,是你的福气和运气,就好比天上的馅饼直接掉到了你的嘴里,属于可遇而不可求的美事。尤其在当今虚伪泛滥,真诚缺乏,心与心隔膜如山的现实社会,敢于直接或间接提 In real life, everyone is afraid of criticism. It seems that criticism means exposing and exposing ugliness, denying or slandering their ability, hurting dignity, depriving them of their face, and going after it with you. In fact, to meet people who criticize you is your blessing and luck, like the pie in the sky directly fell into your mouth, which is a good thing to meet but can not ask. Especially in today’s hypocrisy, the lack of sincerity, heart and heart separated reality, dare to mention directly or indirectly