礼貌用语历来在语用学中备受关注,而作为礼貌话语的对立面——冲突性话语,却因其负面性而较少有人关注。实际上,冲突性话语也是人际交际活动中实现交际目的不可缺少的手段之一。本文将以《老友记》为语料,分析冲突的类型及结束方式,进而探究冲突主体的关系对冲突类型及结束方式的影响。 Polite expressions have been paid much attention in pragmatics, and conflicting discourse, which is the opposite of polite discourse, has attracted less attention due to its negative nature. In fact, conflicting discourse is also one of the indispensable means to realize the purpose of communication in interpersonal communication activities. This article will use “Friends” as a corpus to analyze the types of conflicts and the way they end, and then explore the impact of the relationship between conflicting parties on the type of conflict and the way it ends.