独生子女的教育问题已经成为社会关注的问题,现代家长在教育独生子女时到底该如何去做?1.关爱而不溺爱。很多学生从小到大,除了会读书以外一无所能。很多父母完全不明白对于孩子一生的成功和幸福,到底什么是最重要的。他们为孩子把一切都准备好,做饭、洗衣、打扫房间、接送上学、甚至帮孩子把铅笔都削好,就是忘了最重要的东西:如何把孩子培养成一个具有独立思考和独立行动能力的人。关爱是一种更高层面的关心和爱护,而溺爱则是单一的、有局限性和缺乏理性的片面呵护,其后果不堪设想。真正给予关爱,则会让孩子达到会学习、会生活、会自控、会沟通、会合作的“五会”目的,不至于成为“问题孩 The only child education has become a social concern, modern parents in the education of the only child in the end how to do? 1. Caring without spoiling. Many students grow up, doing nothing but reading books. Many parents totally do not understand what is the most important thing for the child’s life’s success and happiness. They’ve got everything ready for their children, cooking, laundry, cleaning their rooms, getting to school, and even helping their children shave their pencils, and forget about the most important things: how to nurture children into an independent thinking and independent ability People. Caring is a higher level of care and love, and doting is a single, limited and lack of rational one-sided care, the consequences could be disastrous. Really giving love, will let children reach will learn, will live, will be controlled, will communicate, will cooperate ”five will “ purpose, will not become ”problem child