曾经看到有这么一句话“貌似不合群,喜欢离群索居的人其实并不孤独,反而是喜欢热闹的人才是孤独者。”或许这句话有些偏激,有点断取义,甚至可能包含了些许个人情感,但不是并无道理。要想弄清楚什么样的人才是孤独其实并不容易。一个人是不可能深入另一个人的内心去弄清他是否孤独,甚至有时不太可能从他的面部表情和行为举止去推断。但这些都不重要,弄清楚这个问题的意义不在于查看身边的人是否孤独,而是如何帮助自己摆脱掉孤独。 Have seen such a sentence “seemingly out of line, like the people who live in isolation are not alone, but rather like the lively talent is lonely. ” Perhaps this sentence is a bit extreme, a bit of semantic justice, and may even include A little personal emotion, but not unreasonable. It is not easy to figure out what kind of people are lonely. It is impossible for a person to go deep into another person’s heart to find out if he is alone or even occasionally impossible to infer from his facial expressions and demeanor. But none of this matters, and figuring out what the problem means is not looking at whether the people around you are lonely, but how to help you get rid of loneliness.